Meet Book Blogger Sandra Valente: Part Two

If you missed Part One of the interview with Sandra, click HERE.

You give in-depth and insightful reviews. Do you enjoy the review process? Are there ever days where you think “that’s it. I’m done with reviewing?”

Thank you, Emma; it makes me really happy you think so! 🙂  I do enjoy the review process, most of the time. By this, I mean that some reviews are just so easy peasy – they flow from my mind to my fingers, like a leaf floats down to the ground on a gentle breeze. I can sit here and bang away (on my keyboard!) for half an hour to an hour, by which time my review looks like a story all its own. It feels pretty much the same and just as pleasurable, as having eaten a slice of decadent, lemon cheesecake! LOL These reviews give me instant gratification. Others take longer and not solely because I didn’t enjoy the book, but because I want to add something in particular which takes more time as I go through my highlights, or because what I want to say needs to be just right. I’m pedantic, and it’s not something I can help either. If I’m to continue with this (give me strength) this honesty I can’t seem to tamper down, I’d have to say, yes… there are days I want to get up and walk away. However, these are few and far between, luckily. I find it best to leave reviews that irk me and get back to them later on in the day, instead of trying to forge on while my frustration levels hit the roof.

What’s your favourite genre?

This is a toughie! I’m very open-minded, so enjoy a wide variety of genres. However, I was a terrible introvert growing up. Seriously, it was so bad my poor parents were at a loss as to what to do with me. They begged me to go out! Usually parents want their children to stay home. 🙂 I still refused as it wasn’t my scene, so, as you may have guessed, I literally lived in books. Romance books. Oh my word, I loved romance books and devoured them like nobody’s business. I still do. I’d have to say romance, and not just purely romance – any book encompassing romance, be it romantic suspense, paranormal romance, contemporary, anything – makes no difference.

I love the paranormal romance genre, as well you know or anyone who visits my blog. Tell me, when you’re not reading and blogging, how do you like to spend your time?

I do know! Hehehe! All I want to do is read and blog, but that’s not possible. 🙂 I love meeting up with girlfriends for some fab downtime where we drink copious amounts of coffee (or margaritas), talk about whatever takes our fancy, and of course we inevitably chat about – no brainer here – books. I also love spending a good hour or more, if I have the time, in a book store. I love book stores so much, I could, quite happily, set up a camping bed in one corner with a bedside lamp and live there permanently!

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I’m the same with book shops, especially second hand ones. When you read a book you don’t like, how do you handle the review? 

I love second-hand ones, too!

As you know, one thing I do not do on my blog as I refuse to bash authors and their work, is review books I would rate below a 3 star. Not all books and not all stories are for everyone, so I don’t see the point of hurting someone and their feelings just so I can author/book bash. This is actually one of the things I had up on my Review Request page. Something along the lines of, “If you’re looking for this type of review, best you go somewhere else as you won’t find it here.” But in keeping with my honesty and feelings towards a book, I will mention (not always, only if it gets to a point where there are way too many wrong things) repetition, typos not only in spelling but the use of both US and UK spelling. Not everyone knows the difference, but it’s something everyone should take the time to Google when not sure. It’s very distracting, and often considered flat out typos.

Just because I don’t review books I’d rate below a 3 star, doesn’t mean I didn’t have an issue or two with any book I’ve rated from 3 to 5 stars. I can love a book to bits but if something bothers me, I will say so. What I’ve done in the past, and will still do should I come across the same issues, will be to contact the author personally. I will not tear an author to pieces on my blog, on Amazon, on Goodreads or wherever. My conscience would kill me. Believe it or not, I’ve been thanked for taking the time in letting authors know about any inconsistencies in their book. I even go as far as to type up certain lines or passages from their manuscripts, so they can see exactly what I’m talking about. I’ve done a guest post where I mentioned this exact thing. An author I’d e-mailed was quite shocked at what I had to say. No, not because I was horrible or nasty, far from it – I’m never that – but because she has quite a huge following and not one single person who’d read her book (some of which she considers friends) mentioned a thing. They told her the book was great, which by the way it was as I’ve read it, and most rated it 5 stars. Now, it doesn’t matter what it was rated because the story was really good, but if you call this person a friend then tell them. Don’t let them think all is hunky dory! You are not doing the author any favours. Are you doing your ‘friend’ any favours? I don’t think so.

I am honest in every single review I write. I don’t sugar-coat anything, whether good (you’ve seen how ‘teenager’ I can be when I love a book to bits) or not so good. I just do it with class! *wink* Those who take great pleasure in slamming authors are more than welcome to do so on their blogs. I truly believe that there are ways and means to write a non-favourable review. I’ve seen downright nasty ones, which have made me cringe on an author’s behalf. I won’t put my name to those. If you are looking for a particular review on a book you’re interested in and don’t find it on my blog, it’s either because I haven’t read it, or because I did and didn’t like it. No further discussion is necessary. Remember, in these types of situations, I contact the author privately. Whether an author takes what I have to say into consideration is totally at their discretion. Simple.

I’d say authors appreciate getting that email from you. Particularly when they’re indie and most of their books are in ebook format, it’s easy enough to correct a few typos and republish.

I completely agree with you, Emma, e-book formats make it that much easier. Some authors have gone back, fixed up what was wrong and re-published.

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You beta read and edit also. How did you get into that? (And thank you for all your help with my stuff)!

You are very welcome, and it’s always a pleasure, Emma! Oh gosh, I can’t believe I even got into all of this. I first beta read for a very well known, traditionally published, American author (she’s so good!), who e-mailed me regarding a story she’d written way back when. It had spent far too long in her drawer, gathering dust. She wanted to self-pub this one. As you can imagine, I was over the freaking moon. I took it on and gave her feedback. She was very pleased with what I had to say and in thanks for beta reading for her, she sent me a box of autographed books! YAY! Made my year.

As far as editing goes, it all started with a fellow South African author. I’m currently in the process of editing her second book. We met on Twitter. She’d sent me an ARC of her book, and shortly thereafter I started reading it. However, it got to a point where I asked if we could meet in person. I loved her book so much, but there were typos. It was on the verge, I kid you not, of being published, so I panicked as I had to say something! It was killing me. We met, and as hard as it was for me to tell her what I’d come across, I worked up the courage and got it out. I must mention, though, that she’s very intuitive and had already gathered what I wanted to talk about. She was sad due to having had the book professionally edited. Out of the blue, she asked me if I’d work on it. I was shocked and told her I wasn’t a ‘professional’ editor (and I was scared), but she wasn’t phased in the least because she couldn’t believe what I’d picked up, so was more than happy for me to fix what needed fixing. It’s been an amazing journey, and we work so well together. We just get each other. I was touched and because she’d already paid someone to edit, I refused to be paid for it. And that is how I came to edit! 🙂 I’ve since edited for a UK author (also free of charge), and for another author based in the US. I only edit for indie authors, for a minimal charge, and only when I’ve managed to swim my way up to the surface where reading and blogging are concerned.

During the above, this happened. I’d become friends with another author (fellow South African as well, although I’m up in JHB and she’s in CT) on Twitter, who by the way is a professional editor and runs her own business. There were certain words I wasn’t sure should be capitalised and so on while editing, so I would ask her a few things. She’s fabulous, and always got back to me with suggestions and answers to my queries. She’s truly top notch! She asked me one day to take an editor’s test. OMW. I just about fainted, and became very nervous. When I replied, I told her I couldn’t possibly do it as I was nervous and didn’t want to look like a right troll! Also, I didn’t have a piece of paper stating I was an editor. She laughed this off, told me I’d be surprised by how many people with qualifications (said piece of paper) failed the test miserably and persisted, dared me, persisted some more, told me she knew I could do it, and I eventually gave up and took the dreaded test. Of course, for the next day or so, I bit my nails, paced up and down; bit whatever was left of my nails and waited in anticipation for the return e-mail and result. When it came through, I freaked out some more, was desperate to look, but didn’t want to at the same time. It was awful to say the least. She said, “I told you so!” LOL She was impressed, especially when I told her English was not my first language. I’m Portuguese. I guess being an introvert and living in books from an early age (10, as this was how old I was when we immigrated to South Africa from Mozambique) helped. For some reason, I can pick up on typos (always easier when they are someone else’s, of course), I can tell the difference between US and UK English, re-construct sentences in order that they make sense, so on and so forth – all that lovely stuff. Let me tell you, it’s darn, hard work! I love it though. But, it’s darn, hard work. The best part? I learn something new every single day.

I’ve now edited a book for this author/editor, and it happened to be non-fiction. That was scary, but I did it. She checked my work and I got the thumbs up. I’m not saying I’m perfect and wasn’t, far from it, as nobody is, but I’m willing to learn as I go along. That always counts for something.

I’d never have guessed you’re Portuguese! One last question, and I’ll let you go. What’s the part of blogging you enjoy the most?

Good! That means I at least make some sense when I write, hahaha.

Everything! I love meeting people from all walks of life, some of which have become very good friends. If I had to pick one though, besides doing reviews, it’s the joy of putting my posts together, and the freedom to be creative. I can, and do, spend hours making things. 🙂 If I can help someone by making them something, then I will, and I’ll smile all day long.

Thank you again, Emma. Although I’ve ranted – you asked – it’s been loads of fun. 🙂

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Thanks for sharing with us, Sandra. Best of luck with your blog. If you’d like to check out Sandra’s online home, visit Simply Sensational Book Fanatics.

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Blogger Interview: Meet Sandra Valente – Book Blogger Extraordinaire

I enjoyed getting to know blogger Laura Thomas recently on the blog. Today, I’d like to introduce you to someone who’s become an online friend of mine, and a woman I hope to sit down for a cup of tea with one day, either in her neck of the woods in South Africa, or mine. Want to know how bloggers really feel when you send a promo request and fail to address the blogger by name? Read on. 😉

Sandra, can you tell us a little bit about yourself and where you live?

I sure can. First things first, though. Thank you so much for having me over on your blog, Emma. Yours is one of the blogs I frequent on a regular basis, so I’m super chuffed to be making an appearance on it!

My name’s Sandra, I’m forty-something (anyone can check on Goodreads, haha), am married, have an eighteen-year-old son and two Chows. Don’t know why I must always mention my doggies, but I guess I just love them to bits. And if anyone is interested; one is female; Skye, and the other male; Milo. They’re gorgeous! 🙂

Love their names, Sandra. Why did you start your blog: Simply Sensational Book Fanatics?

Thank you! It was one of those light bulb moments (I rarely missed Oprah when she was on, and she always went on about the ‘light bulb moment’), you now which I mean. I’d always sit and read this blog or that blog, checking out who had what to say about a certain book, and one day I decided I’d try starting one up myself. Why couldn’t I share with others my thoughts on the books I read? So, I canvassed around and noted options available to me (didn’t have a clue what it all meant at the time, by the way) and the rest is, as they say, history. I’ve loved every single moment of it – the good and the bad – even the long laborious hours of putting things together. In the end, it is more a labour of love than anything else.

It was originally called SSBookFanatics, which stood for Sandra and Suzanne. I just went on ahead, excited as all get out, and roped my book fanatic friend in. Yep, she had to review as well, lol; I didn’t give her a choice! Silly me! After about a year, I got that writing reviews wasn’t something she was interested in and to be fair, it was all my doing. Don’t get me wrong, she loves books and is probably more of a fanatic than I am, but writing what she thought of a book was just not her thing. Then, it was just me. I seriously thought about changing the name and came up with a really cool one (I think so anyway hehe, and if anyone is ever stuck for a book blog name – I’ll share :)), but then everyone asked me why I’d want to do that. Eventually, I decided against it and stuck with it, turning the SS into Simply Sensational. It worked, and Bob’s your uncle. Thought I’d throw this in here. LOL

Cool. I didn’t realise there were two of you initially running the blog. I know bloggers get inundated with book review and promo requests. How do you handle this, and how do you think authors should approach book bloggers like yourself?

Yeah, as I said, I didn’t really give her a choice, lol. I’m just glad I wasn’t stubborn enough not to notice she didn’t really want to be a part of it. You know how you sometimes become so excited about something you rope someone in without even checking that it’s cool with them? This was one of my most backward moments.

Now this is one question I’ve been dying to answer for a very long time, probably because sometimes (not all of the time) it is a frustrating situation. I’ve actually been asked to write a blog/guest post about this very thing, which I will do in due course. But, to answer your question as nicely as I possibly can (because you know I’m a nice person :)), here goes.

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In answer to the first part of your question; I became (as do all bloggers) so inundated with book review requests, I experienced a feeling of overwhelmingness. So much so, a few months back I took matters into my own hands and pulled down my review request page. The thing is that although I’d love to read everyone’s book, it’s just not possible. Sadly (or maybe not!), there is only one me (cloning could be a possibility), with one set of eyes and most importantly… a family that comes first. The second most important thing I decided to take into consideration was the fact that the books I wanted to read – books I chose myself – were being shoved aside due to accepting review requests. It eventually drove me crazy, and one of the reasons I wanted to throw in the towel. Why was I being the person I never wanted to be? The person who couldn’t say no? It was simply not fair on both me and the author. I hate rushing through books even though when given half a chance, I can read one in a day. This hasn’t happened in a freaking long time. I had a chat (with myself) and decided I would only take on books I really wanted to read, books for authors I’ve previously reviewed for if I could fit them in, and books for authors who afforded me equal respect, time and patience.

I had to insert a note in my About Me page recently to say I’m not taking review requests, but they’re still coming! So come on, tell us what really makes you mad. 🙂

I know where you’re coming from, Emma! I went so far as to place a graphic on the right side of my blog stating just that. Guess what? They still come through, lol. I guess patience is going to have to play a part to some extent. Patience has never been one of my virtues, but I’m getting better at it – sort of.

You ask, and you shall receive, lol. Here goes. What really makes me mad is rudeness. It makes me so mad at times; I want to scream bloody, rotten murder. It does. Here’s the thing. When I visit a blog, I take the time to click here, there and everywhere in order to find out more about the author, the person behind the blog, what they like, what books (if any) they’ve published, what they are working on, or anything that’s taking place on their blog. I also, most importantly, find out their name! I’m already getting worked up, and I haven’t even fully answered this yet. LOL What I’m trying to say is simply this: if you are going to approach a blogger to either review your book, promo your book, do a cover reveal for you, it makes no difference… find out their name! Address them by their name. Show them that you have taken the time to learn about them, that you’ve checked out their blog, and that you know what they are all about.

I constantly receive e-mails where I’m addressed as either of the following, one is cool, the others not so much:

(Blank – nothing) : I get told, “Here’s all my stuff. I look forward to the promo.” Really? Nah. I’ll ignore you. You don’t even know what the word ‘manners’ means. Look it up, it will be a revelation!

(Hey) : Now, I know loads of people start off speaking to someone they’ve never met this way. Sorry, but I don’t. I was brought up with, yes, manners. If I don’t know your name and I’ve not been able to find it anywhere on your blog, I’ll be sure to ask you when I e-mail you. It’s honestly not that hard. Make the effort!

(Hi) : I don’t really have a problem with this one, except for the fact that we’ve never spoken before. My name’s not ‘Hi’. If someone has introduced us, then sure, start off in that manner. If you’ve taken the time to peruse my blog where you surely found my Promo page, you’d know my name was Sandra. Heck, if you’ve been to my ‘About Me’ page, it’s there. It’s actually in quite a lot of places on my blog, so no excuse whatsoever. Once we’ve spoken at least once, you can then ‘Hi’ me until the cows come home. I’ll be cool with it then. What I don’t mind right from the beginning is, “Hi, Sandra.” Here’s an example, which applies to both this paragraph and the next: Not two days ago, I received an e-mail requesting a feature/promo. It started off with, “Good morning, Sandra.” My smile beamed all the way to Timbuktu. Thereafter, it’s been, “Hi, Sandra.” My kind of person.

(Sandra; Hi, Sandra; Hey, Sandra.) : Yes! OMFW. Someone, thank God, has taken the time to actually click on my Review Request page, Author/Book Promo page, About Me page – who cares – they’ve found my name (which isn’t at all hard), has read everything I took the time to write regarding promos and knows, by having read to the end of the page, how I hate people with no manners. These people get my full attention, and time. You’ll see by my reply how much I want to promote your book, how much I want to go out of my way to promote your book. I don’t know what’s up lately, but rudeness is apparently the ‘in’ thing. I won’t stand for it. Whether people like me or hate me for it, it’s who I am. Tough.

You go girl. My name is in the title of my blog, so people usually get that right when they’re requesting something. I’m a little more forgiving if people email me and it shows they’re not exactly sure who I am or what I do. I was probably guilty in my very early blogging/publishing days (all the way back in 2011 🙂 ) of being one of those writers who didn’t approach bloggers in the right manner.

🙂 Things happen, and we all make mistakes in the beginning, but eventually learn from them. If someone isn’t sure how to go about something, ask someone. People are willing to help out more than we think.

To end this off before I get carried away, once I’ve spent hours (yes, hours!) putting together your post to which I always include graphics I make myself (time consuming to say the least, but something I love), reading and re-reading to make sure it’s all as perfect as I can make it and something the author will be chuffed with, do not then disappear off radar. I not only put all of this together, I tweet, I share on FB, and I share on Google+. You need to do the same. I mean, for crying out loud, it’s your work; your book; your labour of love (I hope), so I can’t fathom why some authors just don’t give a crap. It’s more like, “Well, she’s got all my stuff, so let her do the work.” Nope. It doesn’t work that way. How hard is it, truly, to pop in, view your post and leave a comment for the blogger? Pop in again later on in the day or even the next day; see if any readers have left you a comment and reply to them accordingly? Sorry, but it boggles my mind. Keep in mind that I do not charge a single cent to prepare and put together promos for authors. If you read my page, you will see that all I ask for is a blog follow, or an FB like. It costs nothing. Perhaps, only a minute of your precious time. You know what? My time is precious, too, and I took way longer to put all your stuff together than it will take you to do either of the above mentioned! I regard it as a ‘thank you’ gesture. I’ve asked time and again that authors/book marketers read my Author/Promo page carefully (http://ssbookfanatics.blogspot.com/p/authorbook-promos.html#.UdSNUjtkS5w) before sending me anything. Seven times out of ten, they don’t. And I know this, because it clearly comes across in their e-mail. Here’s an example: I ask that all documents be sent as a .doc file and not .docx. What do I constantly receive? The latter. I want to scream like there’s no tomorrow. If I asked for a particular file format, it’s because I can’t open the other one. Seriously, I’m busy, just as busy as you are, so please don’t make me waste any more time in e-mailing you back, asking for something I’d already asked for in the first place. See why I get frustrated? Here’s a tip: not everyone has the latest version of Windows. In fact, most editors state that only .doc files should be sent. So, from now on, never send a .docx file to anyone. Less hassle.

Life, anything in it, is about give and take, but most times… it’s all take. This is another thing I won’t stand for anymore either. As a side note, I know for a fact I’m not the only blogger who feels this all-consuming frustration at times. Not even a month ago, I witnessed yet another blogger giving up. She’d had enough. How sad, especially after all the time and effort she’d put in. This happens every day.

I hope authors are listening to this. Thanks for sharing today, Sandra. I hope you don’t throw in the towel next time you wake up to fifty review requests in your inbox. Just remember, it’s okay to say NO!

You’re very welcome, Emma. LOL. I am most certainly trying not to give up. I’m hanging on to faith, and I have now learnt to say no. It is okay. I just didn’t believe it for a long time, and felt awful even considering it. 🙂

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If you enjoyed meeting Sandra, hop on over to her blog, Simply Sensational Book Fanatics, to say hello. Come back for part two of the interview later in the week where Sandra discusses how to handle writing a review of a book you didn’t particularly love.

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